Why jettison the judgment?

Why jettison the judgment? When we make value judgments it slows our learning. The tennis example: Yes! It went in, that was a good serve. (complement) Doh! That was a bad serve. (criticism) Either way, those ‘good/bad’ value judgments only lead to more. Soon its… I’m a good tennis player. I’m a bad tennis player. Read More…

When Monday doesn’t feel entirely amazing…

Task overload. I had an enjoyable, liberating, and empowering thing going for a few weeks. I replaced my habit of email/social media checking with checking my task list instead. I felt a lot of control and ease and flow. I was very aware of all my commitments. I got a lot more done. Then I Read More…

A quick story about your big scary fear

A quick story about your big scary fear Let me tell you a quick story. I hope it gives you more power to live the truly amazing life you were born to live. This morning I browsed over to Amazon and saw this review of “The Positive Thinking Secret” on Amazon: 1 Star – This Read More…

Compliments are criticisms in disguise

“Compliments are criticisms in disguise” Now hold your horses! Before you go getting all disagreeable about that strange statement, let me give you the context.   I’ve been reading a book “The Inner Game of Tennis” this week. And no, I’m not particularly interested in learning tennis at the moment. But as it teaches tennis Read More…

Distraction Is The Destroyer Of Your Dreams

Yesterday’s discussion focused on the detriments of the distraction habit. That subject line is one of my favorite reminders on distraction – I guess I’m keen on alliteration since it helps me remember things better;) I like it because it reminds me to stay FOCUSED. The only way to live fully in the present is Read More…

Why you should look at what you can’t see

I believe everything is conspiring for my benefit –> …but… …believing that requires looking NOT at what can be seen – but what cannot be seen. Many people have a challenge fully believing that because they are so caught up in what they can see! And can you blame them??? No We are all there Read More…

How to never do something you don’t love ever again

Do you absolutely LOVE what you are doing right now? If not, how can you NEVER DO IT AGAIN? Or else start loving it? The first step is just realizing that you can. Those are my new reminder questions pasted on my computer screen I find it drains my energy to think of a big Read More…

Who (or what) is determining how you feel right now?

Are you a victim of your circumstances? Are you a victim of your body’s need for sleep? Are you at effect or at cause in your life? Specifically, are you in charge of how you feel? Or are your feelings dictated by the circumstances? How much sleep you got, how many tasks you have on Read More…