“I let the negativity sweep me away in the tide”

Got this email from TAL Family member Jamie… “I’m reading your book right now. What challenges me is many negative people and our seemingly more violent and ignorant society. I am saturated in the foolishness around me. I let the negativity sweep me away in the tide.” I think this is an important issue, because Read More…

Did our innocence cause our guilt?

If you tried to email me the last few days the email likely bounced back undeliverable…sorry about that! My email got messed up in resolving the ‘website hack’ situation. It’s working again now.   On to today’s thoughts…ever notice how your fears always have a subtle (or strong) undertone of guilt? With fear there tends Read More…

To feel loved, first give love

The TAL website was hacked last week. I’m sorry if you were among the few who had the unfortunate experience of visiting our website and being redirected to a porn site. I was deeply disturbed when I heard reports of that happening. We immediately took down the website and are in the process of re-launching Read More…

Defending your peace against the lies of negativity

The other day after a great event with entrepreneur friends and peers I felt oddly oppressed by my thoughts and feelings. It started with judgment and comparison as I began listening to the thoughts of inferiority that arise from what is clearly still some attachment of my self-worth to the amount of business success I Read More…

The pitfalls of ‘setting our mind’…and what to do instead

The other day I wrote about a ‘subtle lie that destroys our peace’. The belief that I will only feel good about myself if I accomplish my goal. Today I will discuss another similar belief, that is super common, but can also have damaging subtle consequences.   “I can do anything I set my mind Read More…

“This has made compassion so fluid”

Carley posted this the other day on the TAL Facebook page: “The truthful words within your book has completely changed my life and fills me with continuous joy and happiness, so I will continue to thank you. I am also participating in the 5 minute mental mastery and this has completely empowered, strengthened, enlightened me Read More…

Would you rather be ‘happy’ or ‘right’?

I often find myself asking my kids that question. Us adults need the reminder too though. The challenge is you often have to choose between the two. Happy or Right. Quite often you can’t have both. But for some reason we as humans get so fixated on being right at all costs that we are Read More…

How do I deal with jealousy and people that really irritate me?

I got that question the other day from a TAL Family member – here are some thoughts: 1st – take a peak at the emotional guidance scale: Joy, Knowledge, Empowerment, Freedom, Love, Appreciation Passion Enthusiasm, Eagerness, Happiness Positive Expectation, Belief Optimism Hopefulness Contentment Boredom Pessimism Frustration, Irritation, Impatience Overwhelm Disappointment Doubt Worry Blame Discouragement Anger Read More…

Creating sacred spaces

Hi, I have a love confession to make… I love my office 🙂 I mean, I really love it. I love spending time in it. It is my quiet oasis (well…quiet’er’ I guess…nothing’s really quiet in a house with 4 kids under 10 years old.) I love leaning back in my chair in the pristinely Read More…

A subtle lie that destroys our peace

So subtle we usually can’t see it in ourself. Watch out for the word ‘if’. Small word. HUGE Impact. Look for this ‘unspoken lie’ in the dialogue below, “I can only feel good about myself if I achieve my goal.” One member of the TAL Mastermind Pre-Launch team posted something in the Facebook group the Read More…